Still, I would be interested to hear your perspective and that of your readers. I can be part of a church family whether my spouse goes or not. I do wonder if you ask this blog just to get supporting advice. I wouldn't purposefully subject my daughters to that BS. Just go ahead and ask for the definitions and treat it like learning a new language. It is crucial to recognize that Mormonism has elements of belief, practice, and custom that work to make interfaith marriages especially difficult and inconvenient for both spouses. There is no way I can compete with a suicide!!.
That is why there are home teachers, friends, family members, neighborsвto provide priesthood blessings. On her mind, her eternal salvation depends on marrying a worthy priesthood holder. The point to this story is that when he had any free time he wanted to spend it with me. You need to do something interesting and keep her faith up. Move on, but after thanksgiving. She started crying when I explained this to her. Do you believe in the Gospel as taught by the Church. We are long distance, and it is hard, because when we are together I spend much of time alone waiting for him to come back from the hospital. Certainly there are such people in the church, but there are such people in any organization, and I would challenge you to remember that the members are also individuals with thoughts, feelings and the ability to rebel in their own ways.
I got married to for love and companionship, not to essentially be lonely with a lot of nice things and raise my children "as if" I were a single parent. Earlier I mentioned "Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff. The important thing is whether or not your spouse will support you in your endevours to live your religion. And if he loves you as much as you love him. My 16 year old daughter told her Bishop who made that comment, that she thought her dad was great just the way he was.
You need to do something interesting and keep her faith up. How the Book of Mormon was translated using a sacred rock. I dated many LDS guys before him. Hire out as many household chores as you can afford housekeeping, lawn care etc.